Can we choose our own identity? Society books Caitlyn Jenner is a trans woman, ‘asexual for now’; Rachel Dolezal identifies as black. Who owns your identity, and how can old ways of thinking be replaced? Kwame Anthony Appiah Fri 31 Aug 2018 12.00 BST Shares 566 What could be more personal than the question of who you are? Illustration: Lee Martin/Guardian Design Team I n April 2015, after a long and very public career, first as a male decathlete, then as a reality TV star, Caitlyn Jenner announced to the world she was a trans woman. Asked about her sexuality, Jenner explained that she had always been heterosexual, and indeed she had fathered six children in three marriages. She understood, though, that many people were confused about the distinction between sexual orientation and gender identity, and so she said: “Let’s go with ‘asexual’ for now.” Isn’t it up to her? What could be more per...